I believe forgiveness is two-sided, but often it is coming from one, instead of both. Even if there is an apology, you have to judge from the proper perspective. Pride will make you swell up and say things you shouldn’t. I believe in walking humbly, but at times I know I should speak up. I might, but it takes me longer to say what I mean when I am thinking.
With forgiveness, I try to keep a clean slate and forgive until I really have.